Lilli Vincenz is a pioneering gay rights activist. In 1965, she was the only lesbian to participate in the first White House picket. From 1965 to 1969, Vincenz demonstrated each Fourth of July in front of Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell. These protests, called Annual Reminders, launched the gay and lesbian civil rights movement. Bent Alaska presents his/her story as part of our celebration of LGBT History Month 2011, with thanks to the Equality Forum.

Lilli Vincenz

“We were laying the groundwork for what we hoped would be later activism that would give homosexuals equal rights.”

Lilli Vincenz (born September 26, 1937) is a pioneering gay rights activist. In 1965, she was the only lesbian to participate in the first White House picket. From 1965 to 1969, Vincenz demonstrated each Fourth of July in front of Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell. These protests, called Annual Reminders, launched the gay and lesbian civil rights movement.

Vincenz was born in Hamburg, Germany, and grew up during World War II. Her father died when she was 2 years old. In 1949, after her mother married an American, the family moved to the United States.

In 1959, Vincenz earned bachelor’s degrees in French and German from Douglas College. The following year, she received a master’s degree in English from Columbia University.

After college, Vincenz enlisted in the Women’s Army Corps and worked at Walter Reed Army Medical Center. After serving nine months, she was outed by her roommate and was discharged for being gay.

In 1963, Vincenz joined the Mattachine Society of Washington (MSW) — joining, she said in an interview with About.com’s Lesbian Life, because there was no chapter of the early lesbian rights organization Daughters of Bilitis there. There she served as editor of the The Homosexual Citizen for a year and a half.  According to Frank Kameny, the Mattachine Society’s founder (as quoted in a profile of Vincenz at Gay Today):

The ideology of The Homosexual Citizen can be perfectly summarized in three words: Activist,. Militant. Radical. Those were dirty words in 1966, but that’s who we were. We were the cutting edge of the movement. The Homosexual Citizen reflected our activism–the unifying and protesting mindset on the vanguard of the movement.

Vincenz was in the MSW delegation that held the first meeting with the Civil Service Commission to discuss discriminatory policies toward gays and lesbians.

Vincenz recalls,

Then in 1965 we started picketing. April 17th. That was the White House picket. I just felt wonderful. We needed visibility. Because gay people, we were not visible in those days. So we all had dress rules. We looked good. We were protesting the policies of the government in regards to gay people. Because gays were fired then.

In 1971, Vincenz helped launch the Frank Kameny for Congress campaign. This marked the first time an openly gay person ran for public office in the United States.

Vincenz filmed two important gay rights demonstrations: the 1968 Annual Reminder in Philadelphia and the first anniversary of Stonewall, known as the first New York Pride Parade.

From 1971 to 1979, Vincenz hosted a monthly Gay Women’s Open House in Washington to provide a safe setting for socializing and discussing common concerns.

In 1990, Vincenz earned a Ph.D. in human development from the University of Maryland. Vincenz has written for numerous publications and has appeared on television and in film.  In 1992, she and her partner founded the Community for Self Development to promote gay-positive learning.

She resides in Arlington, Virginia, with her partner, Nancy Ruth Davis.

In June 2011, Vincenz told About.com,

I’m also doing a lot of music. I have a little group called Ashgrove Players. I play fiddle. My partner and I have been together 25 years. We’ve been doing a lot of cruises. We went to Tahiti in March with Olivia. We’ve been on 14 Olivia cruises. We’re very busy.

The Ash Grove Players played at The Jefferson in Ballston Common, Virginia on January 8, 2010, with Lee Paulson on the accordion; Wilmer Kerns on mandolin; Lilli Vincenz on fiddle; Lisa Robinson on fiddle; Joel Edelman on guitar, and Pete Coleman on guitar. Here they are playing “Ashokan Farewell”:

For more about Lilli Vincenz, visit her profile on Gay Today, her interview on About.com’s Lesbian Life, or her LGBT History Month page.

Photo credit: Lilli Vincenz, cover photo for The Ladder, January 1966. Photo by Kay Lahusen.